Are you tired of running the rat race, but you’d still like to be taken care of financially? A lot of people feel the same way, and there’s a simple solution: find someone wealthy and marry rich. In this article, we’ll walk you through meeting a millionaire, connecting with a millionaire, and forming a good relationship so you can (hopefully) land a big ring on your finger.

1

Sign up for a millionaire dating app.

4

Show off your sexy side.

  1. Yes, it’s true—most millionaires want their partners to be good looking. In order to attract the rich person of your dreams, spend some time on your hair, your makeup (if you wear it), and your clothing. You’ll want to look and feel your best when you wave and smile at a rich person across the bar; otherwise, they might just move on to someone else.[6]
    • Set aside some money to put into your appearance before you try finding a millionaire. Get a new haircut, pamper yourself with a manicure, and go all out with a spa day to keep yourself looking fresh.
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Emphasize how smart you are.

  1. For a lot of millionaires, looks won’t be enough. Prove to your potential partner that you’re worthy of their time by getting an education. If you can swing it, try to get a college degree; if you can’t, educate yourself at home by reading lots of books and taking free classes online about subjects you’re interested in.[8]
    • If you can manage to get into an ivy league school, that’s a great way to meet people who are rich (or going to be rich). But if you can’t, don’t sweat it—you’ll have plenty of other opportunities.
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Dabble in the art world.

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Know your stuff when it comes to money.

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Don’t bring up their wealth all the time.

  1. The last thing you want to do is paint yourself as a gold digger. Even if you did set out to find a partner that could provide for you, don’t let them know that. Millionaires usually want somebody who is able to support themselves.[13] Treat your partner like a real person, and get to know them on a deeper level. You have a much higher chance of actually marrying them if you pretend like they’re an Average Joe on the street.[14]
    • Make sure you have goals and aspirations in life that don’t revolve around marrying rich. Things like getting a good job or dedicating yourself to a cause don’t require money, and it will show your millionaire date that you aren’t just in it for their wealth.
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Form good relationships with the kids.

Expert Q&A

  • Question
    Where can I meet wealthy people?
    Alessandra Conti
    Alessandra Conti
    Celebrity Matchmaker & Dating Coach
    Alessandra Conti is a Celebrity Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and Co-Founder of Matchmakers In The City, a personal Matchmaking firm headquartered in Los Angeles, California. Alessandra is a Matchmaker behind MTV's, “Are You The One”, and is the go-to Celebrity Matchmaker for shows like NBC's Access Hollywood, and CBS's Face The Truth. Her dating and relationship advice has been featured on Forbes, Elite Daily, The New Yorker, The LA Times, and Fox News. For nearly 10 years, Alessandra has worked with clients ranging from celebrities to young professionals and leads a team of matchmakers responsible for hundreds of marriages through their knowledge of interpersonal relationships, body language, and lie detection. She holds a BA in Communications from American University and is a Matchmaking Institute Certified Matchmaker (CMM).
    Alessandra Conti
    Celebrity Matchmaker & Dating Coach
    Expert Answer
    You can meet wealthy people at the events hosted by various organizations in your community. Auction houses, fabulous restaurants, and golf courses are other places where you may meet them.
  • Question
    What should I do if I want to connect with rich people?
    Alessandra Conti
    Alessandra Conti
    Celebrity Matchmaker & Dating Coach
    Alessandra Conti is a Celebrity Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and Co-Founder of Matchmakers In The City, a personal Matchmaking firm headquartered in Los Angeles, California. Alessandra is a Matchmaker behind MTV's, “Are You The One”, and is the go-to Celebrity Matchmaker for shows like NBC's Access Hollywood, and CBS's Face The Truth. Her dating and relationship advice has been featured on Forbes, Elite Daily, The New Yorker, The LA Times, and Fox News. For nearly 10 years, Alessandra has worked with clients ranging from celebrities to young professionals and leads a team of matchmakers responsible for hundreds of marriages through their knowledge of interpersonal relationships, body language, and lie detection. She holds a BA in Communications from American University and is a Matchmaking Institute Certified Matchmaker (CMM).
    Alessandra Conti
    Celebrity Matchmaker & Dating Coach
    Expert Answer
    Be friendly and kind to everybody. All wealthy people do not drive a Rolls Royce and wear a suit all the time. Many of them are down-to-earth and humble.
  • Question
    What are some outfit ideas for girls trying to impress a guy?
    Spencer Shimada
    Spencer Shimada
    Image Consultant
    Spencer Shimada is an Image Consultant and the Founder of White Shoe Consulting based in the Denver metro area. He specializes in helping others build confidence through wardrobe consulting and personal styling. Spencer has a Bachelor’s degree in Marketing from Weber State University and an MBA from The University of Birmingham.
    Spencer Shimada
    Image Consultant
    Expert Answer
    Girls should wear outfits that make them feel confident! Confidence radiates through your body language and if you walk with your head held high and your shoulder back, a boy is sure to notice. Try styling yourself utilizing contrasting colors. If you wear light colors on your top half, wear dark colors on your bottom half. If you’d like to infuse some color, start off with an accessory such as a colorful bracelet, earring, or interesting necklace. Dress true to yourself.
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If you’re looking to marry a millionaire, set yourself apart from the girls who fit the gold digger cliché by being distinguished and making interesting conversation. Follow the latest news and read up on music, art, literature, and film. Cultivate your own interests and talents and your millionaire will be impressed by your passion for life. To find your man, start by frequenting bars and cafes around major medical and tech universities, where you’ll find young grad students well on their way to becoming doctors and tech executives. You should also hang out in other places that attract wealthy people, like auction houses and charity events. For more tips on finding the perfect millionaire to marry, keep reading!

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