Want to drive your boyfriend crazy? Up your kissing game to take your lip-locking from dull to delightful. It doesn't take much to turn a guy on and we've got easy tips for making your next makeout session extra steamy. You'll show him you're a fantastic kisser and drive him crazy at the same time.

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Plant kisses along his neck and shoulders.

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Move your hands over his body while you kiss.

  1. Run your fingers through his hair, stroke his arm, or embrace him. If you keep your hands still, you'll come across as stiff. Instead, move your hands over his body as you kiss. You might drag your fingers down his back, place your hands on his hips, or rub his thighs.[11]
    • If your guy seems a little awkward, grasp his hands and place them on your body. For instance, if he's keeping his hands at his sides, pull them toward you and place them on your hips.
    • If he doesn't seem to be into it, try communicating with him about his wants and desires. You can get expert help with wikiHow’s course: How to Talk about Sex (Without Feeling Awkward). This course is created by a Sex and Relationship Psychologist, and it will walk you through how to talk to your partner about kissing, sex, and other intimate activities.
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This article was co-authored by Eddy Baller and by wikiHow staff writer, Jessica Gibson. Eddy Baller is a Dating Coach and the Owner of a dating consulting and coaching service, Conquer and Win, based in Vancouver, Canada. Coaching since 2011, Eddy specializes in confidence building, advanced social skills, and relationships. Conquer and Win helps men worldwide have the love lives they deserve. His work has been featured in The Art of Manliness, LifeHack, and POF among others. This article has been viewed 632,781 times.
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To turn up the heat when you’re making out with your boyfriend, try gazing deep into his eyes before you lock lips. Put your arms around his waist or grab his shirt or jacket and pull him close to you. Tease him by leaning in for a kiss, then pulling back for a moment to help build anticipation. When you start kissing him, caress his face or hair with your hands. Try opening your mouth a little while you kiss him. If he’s into it, slip your tongue into his mouth or gently nibble his lower lip. You don’t have to stick to just kissing him on the lips, either. Experiment with kissing other sensitive areas, like his ears, neck, jaw, or shoulders.

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