This article was co-authored by Imad Jbara. Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.
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As a teenager, seeing a girl you like can be exciting and stressful. It can be hard to figure out how to talk to her, let alone get her number! Don't worry—we've got your back. Read on to learn all the essential tips and tricks about how to get her phone number (without it being awkward!).
Steps
Send her a text when you get up, or when you arrive home.
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1You can also send her a text to let her know you're going to bed soon. This is a great time to talk to her about what she's been up to, or to ask her a question you've been pondering about her. If you're sending a text during the day, try to limit it to a maximum of three or four messages. Don't bombard her with questions. You don't need to ask her anything more than you need to.
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- Consider finding a reason to cut the conversation short. If you've gotten a good talk going, and you find a natural lull, you can say, "It's been great talking to you, but I need to go to practice now. I'll talk to you later :)" If things were going well, then this might leave her wanting more.
- If the first few texts naturally bloom into a huge, days-long conversation over multiple messaging media – let it happen. This almost certainly means that she likes you.
Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow can I get my crush's phone number fast?Imad JbaraImad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.
Dating CoachJust approach them and be direct. Introduce yourself and give them a compliment before asking for their number. -
QuestionWhat if I don't have a cell phone, only a landline?Community AnswerLandlines can still send and receive phone calls. Just let the girl know that you're calling from a landline, so if she returns the call, she may have to ask whoever answers to speak to you.
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QuestionHow can I get a girl to like me and eventually ask for my phone number?Community AnswerGirls generally like to have guys ask for their numbers, not the other way around. But if you are a shy person, try small gestures (like notes). Also try to befriend her first; just be careful not to get friend-zoned and you should be on the pathway to a meaningful phone number.
References
- ↑ Imad Jbara. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
- ↑ Imad Jbara. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.
- ↑ http://www.teenvogue.com/story/crush-on-girl
- ↑ http://teens.webmd.com/features/how-do-i-get-a-girlfriend
- ↑ Imad Jbara. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.