How to Make a Guy Want to Kiss You

Co-authored by Laura Bilotta

Finally, you find a guy that you like. All you want him to do is kiss you, but you don’t know if he wants to or how to make it want to. There are a few easy tricks to make him want to kiss you. You need to put in some prep-work and then hint at him the right way, and he’ll have no choice but to kiss you.

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Putting in the Work

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Make him work for it. You’ve met an incredibly gorgeous guy; the last thing you want to do is over-inflate his ego right away. Don’t shower him with attention. Instead, show him that you refuse to be wowed easily. He’s probably used to the attention, so he’ll like that you seem slightly out of reach for him.^{[1]
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- Don’t gush over him. If he mentions doing something that sounds amazing, you can comment on it but don’t talk about how amazing it must’ve been for hours.
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Let him know you’re happy that you know him. Leave it at that. While you guys are talking, just mention that you think he’s a cool guy and you’re happy that he’s in your life. Once again, don’t gush. All you’re doing is securing your spot in his mind. If you aren’t going to run into him, you can mention it during a texting conversation.

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Set a casual time to hang out. Make sure he’s going to a party, or see if he wants to meet up after the home game. You don’t need to specify a time and place that it will be only you and him. You can meet him in a group setting and pull him aside during it.
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Keep lip gloss on. When you do run into him, you want your lips to be something that he notices. This is easily done by wearing lip gloss and occasionally licking your lips.

Part 2

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Hinting That You Want Him to Kiss You

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Put yourself out there. It doesn’t matter how sexy your outfit is, or how good your makeup looks, you need to make sure you don’t second guess yourself. Guys like it when you’re comfortable in your own skin. If you’re not confident about it, a guy can tell in a matter of minutes and be turned off.^{[2]
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Make him focus on you. A great way to get noticed is by suggesting the two of you get away. Tell him you want to take him outside to show him something, or that you have pictures in you room for him to see. This will create time alone where he focuses on only you.
- Have your lip gloss on for this time alone.
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Be playful. Guys steer clear of girls who seem uptight. A playful attitude will show him that you have a sense of humor, and a guy is more likely to kiss a girl with a sense of humor. Laugh at him and lean in to touch his shoulder as you do.^{[3]
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Expert Interview. 4 March 2020.} This will show him that you’re both playful and interested in him.
- Lean into him while he’s talking. Simply sit next to him and lean your shoulders toward him to show him that you’re drawn to him.^{[4]
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Compliment him. Use body and appearance-specific compliments to show him that you’re interested and that you notice him.^{[5]
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- ”You look so handsome.”
- ”You weren’t kidding when you said you were working out. Look at you!”
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Pull him into the right setting. When you take him away from the crowds and take him to a private place to talk, it should set the mood. Not only does this keep his attention on you, but it makes him consider kissing you. It doesn’t have to be overly romantic—just somewhere that the two of you will be comfortable.

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Warnings

If you pressure him, he will feel uncomfortable. If he doesn’t lean in for a kiss, wait for another day. This doesn’t mean that it won’t happen, just that it wasn’t the right time. Keep repeating these steps and soon you’ll get that kiss.

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