So, you’re going on a third date—how exciting! But what memorable activities can you do? How can you keep them interested? Have no fear because you’ve come to the right place. We’ve got the best and most creative third date ideas to get those sparks flying. There’s sure to be something that’ll pique you and your date’s interest in this list, so keep reading.

This article is based on an interview with our professional dating and relationship coach, Mark Rosenfeld, founder of Make Him Yours. Check out the full interview here.

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Go on a picnic.

  1. Lay out the picnic blanket for a wholesome date. Having a picnic during golden hour may seem cliche, but it can leave you and your date feeling all warm and fuzzy inside. Pack their favorite foods or surprise them with a picturesque charcuterie spread. Ask them questions and don’t be afraid to get personal—third dates are all about learning more about each other.[1]
    • Snap a picture or two of your date when the lighting’s just right to capture the memory and show them how beautiful they are.
    • Take a walk around the park after your picnic to move and talk together.
    • Picnic rained out? Lay the picnic blanket in your living room for an at-home date.
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Go for a bike ride.

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Take a class together.

  1. Try something new with your date to make lasting memories.[3] Have you both always wanted to learn how to cook or dance? Finding a mutual interest can help you bond and strengthen your growing relationship. So, get out of your comfort zone and enroll in a class that matches both of your interests.
    • Are you both artistic? Try a painting or pottery class—and don’t be afraid to get messy!
    • Are you both athletic? Take up a yoga or dance class to work out together.
    • Are you both foodies? Consider a cooking or baking class to improve those culinary skills.
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Walk around a food festival.

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Watch a comedy show.

  1. Laugh with your date to keep things laid back. The third date is the time to grow closer to one another, and what better way to do that seamlessly than by laughing? Buy tickets for an afternoon show and treat your date to dinner afterward or vice versa. The show will give you plenty to talk about, and you can learn more about their comedic side too.
    • Find comedy shows in your area by searching “comedy shows near me.”
    • Does your date have a favorite comedian? Check out the comedian’s website to see if they’re touring somewhere near you.
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Visit an arcade.

  1. Challenge each other to skeeball, Whac-A-Mole, or Pac-Man. Did you know that a little friendly competition can turn someone on? If you’re looking to build chemistry, bring your date to an arcade where you can play and tease one another. Letting your inner child out can help you bond and flirt.
    • Try modern arcades like Dave & Buster’s for a mix of modern and classic games.
    • Old-fashioned arcades can be a blast from the past, and you can even dress in your classiest retro outfit.
    • Win a prize for your date so they’ll have something to remember this special third date.
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Attend a sporting event.

  1. Go see a game together for a memorable, wholesome experience. If your date’s as much of a sports fan as you, take the third date as an opportunity to watch your favorite sport in person together. Get dressed up in your wildest fan outfit and have fun! Remember, this is the time for you both to show those hidden sides of yourself.
    • There are plenty of lulls during a game where you can talk—halftime, time-outs, you name it!
    • If your favorite teams are rivals, try to attend a rival match. This is sure to build some romantic tension.
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Buy tickets to a concert.

About This Article

Mark Rosenfeld
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This article was written by Mark Rosenfeld and by wikiHow staff writer, Aly Rusciano. Mark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach for women and founded Make Him Yours in 2015. Mark specializes in helping people find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon on its release. This article has been viewed 6,384 times.
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