Gone are the days of going to bars, single’s events, or even speed dating—it’s all about dating apps now. Founded by Whitney Wolfe, an executive at Tinder, Bumble seeks to be more female-friendly by only allowing the woman to send the first message, thus cutting down on frivolous or inappropriate messages from men. If you’re trying to figure out if a girl on Bumble likes you or not, there are plenty of ways you can tell, and we’ve put together a handy list to help you out.

Expert Q&A

  • Question
    What does it mean if she's flirty sometimes and cold at other times?
    Cher Gopman
    Cher Gopman
    Dating Coach
    Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
    Cher Gopman
    Dating Coach
    Expert Answer
    If she's been mostly flirty, it may just be that she isn't putting a lot of thought into how she's responding. People often don't put a ton of effort into their responses on these apps because they aren't talking to someone right in front of them, so the replies can come off as kind of stale. If the conversation keeps going, don't worry about it too much!
  • Question
    What can I do to pique her interest when I'm flirting?
    Cher Gopman
    Cher Gopman
    Dating Coach
    Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
    Cher Gopman
    Dating Coach
    Expert Answer
    It helps to establish some mutual interest early on so that you have that foundation. Beyond that, just try to be exciting and fun. Keep things interesting and play off of her energy.
  • Question
    Is it okay to use flirty emojis?
    Cher Gopman
    Cher Gopman
    Dating Coach
    Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
    Cher Gopman
    Dating Coach
    Expert Answer
    Totally, but you don't want to overdo it at first. Using too many emojis can make you come off as a little over-eager.
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Warnings

  • Look for a checkmark on her profile to confirm that her account has been verified by Bumble and to make sure that she isn’t a bot or a catfish.[13]
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