This article was co-authored by Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW and by wikiHow staff writer, Nihal Shetty. Kelli Miller is a Psychotherapist based in Los Angeles, California. Kelli specializes in individual and couples therapy focusing on relationships, depression, anxiety, sexuality, communication, parenting, and more. Kelli also facilitates groups for those struggling with alcohol and drug addiction as well as anger management groups. She is the author of “Professor Kelli’s Guide to Finding a Husband” and the award-winning and best-selling book “Thriving with ADHD”. Kelli co-hosted an advice show on LA Talk Radio and is a relationship expert for The Examiner. She received her MSW (Masters of Social Work) from the University of Pennsylvania and a BA in Sociology/Health from the University of Florida.
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It’s hard to imagine anything more useful than knowing what other people are thinking. But if people’s thoughts seem to be locked away in their own heads, how can you read their minds? Plenty of ways, as it turns out. By being observant and open-minded, you can actually begin to make educated guesses on how other people are feeling. We’re here to show you how with this complete guide on how to read people’s minds.
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Dating & Relationship CoachWatch their actions. Someone who likes you will be very responsive to you. They'll want to talk to you, text you, and spend time with you. -
QuestionHow do I tell if my partner is irritated or mad at me?Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSWKelli Miller is a Psychotherapist based in Los Angeles, California. Kelli specializes in individual and couples therapy focusing on relationships, depression, anxiety, sexuality, communication, parenting, and more. Kelli also facilitates groups for those struggling with alcohol and drug addiction as well as anger management groups. She is the author of “Professor Kelli’s Guide to Finding a Husband” and the award-winning and best-selling book “Thriving with ADHD”. Kelli co-hosted an advice show on LA Talk Radio and is a relationship expert for The Examiner. She received her MSW (Masters of Social Work) from the University of Pennsylvania and a BA in Sociology/Health from the University of Florida.
PsychotherapistStart by looking at their face to see if they're frowning or look upset. If they're upset with you, they might be really quiet or could have a big shift in energy. You could also check their body language. If they're upset, they may cross their arms over their body. You may also notice that their tone of voice sounds annoyed or that they're snapping at you.
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