This article was co-authored by John Keegan and by wikiHow staff writer, Glenn Carreau. John Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
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Do you like a girl and want to impress her over text with fun, insightful, and engaging questions? It can be intimidating to start a text conversation with someone you like, but when you lead with confidence and keep your questions open-ended, you’ll keep the chat flowing easily. If you need some inspiration, keep reading! We’ve prepared a handy list to help you ask a girl questions over text, complete with funny, flirty, deep, and personal example questions.
Things You Should Know
- Start with a casual icebreaker question. Ask her about how her day is doing, or flatter her by asking for some quick advice.
- Ask funny hypothetical questions, or ask her to tell you an entertaining story. Get a little flirty and slip her a sweet compliment.
- Pose some deeper questions as you get closer to her. Ask about her values, influences, and relationship expectations to see if you’re compatible.
Steps
Questions to Ask
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1What’s been the highlight of your day?
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2Eat anything delicious (or awful) today? 😋Advertisement
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3What’s a funny thing that happened to you today?
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4What was the last thing that made you laugh?
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5Working on anything awesome today?
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6Did anything make you smile today?
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7What should I watch on TV tonight?
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8What app do you think I should download on my phone?
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9What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever gotten?
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10Help! Which shirt should I wear this weekend?
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11What are some good questions to ask to learn more about you?
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12What’s your favorite type of conversation to have with someone?
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13Okay, I’ll answer any 3 questions with total honesty. Ready?
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14Anything weighing on your mind right now? Feel free to use me as a sounding board!
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15What’s the most eye-catching photo on your camera roll right now?
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16What’s the goofiest selfie you’ve ever taken? I’ll show you mine if you show me yours.
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17Look at this cool pic I took on my walk today! Do you have any fun photos to share?
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18I am absolutely DYING to see a puppy pic! Could you send your cutest photo?
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19What kind of trouble are you getting into today? 😉
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20When are you free? Want to go on a little adventure?
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21Are you doing anything fun this weekend? Got a little time for me?
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22How about dinner at my place tomorrow?
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23Got any travel plans in the future?
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24What’s the lamest pickup line you’ve ever been given?
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25Ever do something weird to grab someone’s attention?
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26What’s the wildest and most exciting thing you’ve ever done?
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27What’s the most bizarre dream you’ve ever had?
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28If you could have a single superpower, what would it be?
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29What are 3 things you’d bring to a desert island?
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30If you were an actress, what kind of movies would you star in?
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31A genie gives you a wish. What do you wish for?
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32Would you rather your only mode of transportation be a donkey or a giraffe?
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33Quick: what are your top 5 movies?
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34Who are your favorite artists?
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35What’s the coolest place you’ve ever visited and why?
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36What’s one thing you’re absolutely obsessed with?
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37What’s your favorite thing to do in your free time?
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38What would you say is your strongest skill?
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39How’s your big project going? It sounded so cool the last time we talked!
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40What kind of things were you into as a kid?
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41Where’d you go to school? College?
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42Where’s your hometown? Did you like growing up there?
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43Got any siblings? What are they like?
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44What country would your dream job be in?
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45What’s on your bucket list?
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46What would you do if you were guaranteed to succeed?
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47What are 3 places you want to live in?
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48Is your hotness the real cause of global warming? 🔥
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49Are you tired after running through my dreams all last night?
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50I think I need a late-night snack. Can I have you?
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51Has anyone told you how gorgeous you look today?
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52Where did you learn to be so beautiful?
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53How did you get such an amazing fashion sense? I need to know your secrets!
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54Pretty, charming, and an absolute genius? How is there so much cool in one person?
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55Miss me yet? 😉
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56Did you smile just now when you saw that I texted you?
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57When was the last time we talked? We have to change that.
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58In a single sentence, how would you define romance?
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59Is there anything I can do to make you feel more special? 😘
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60What’s the perfect way to ask someone out?
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61What would you prefer to be called: sexy, adorable, or smart?
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62What do marriage and commitment mean to you?
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63What are the 3 things you value most in life?
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64What do you think is the best part of your personality?
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65Do you believe in second chances?
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66In your opinion, what’s the key to making a relationship last?
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67Looking back, what have you done so far to give you the most satisfaction in your life?
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68Do you see yourself ever having kids?
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69Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?
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70How do you define “soulmates”?
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71When do you think a person is ready for marriage?
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72Are you more of an adventurer or homebody?
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73What do you wish you had more time for?
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74What is the healthiest and unhealthiest thing you do regularly?
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75Who brings you the most joy in your life?
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76What book was a real game-changer for you?
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