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When you really love someone, it's normal to feel like they are your whole world, but letting your life revolve around someone else can have its downsides. You might start to lose touch with other important people in your life and let your own goals and hobbies fall by the wayside. Fortunately, it's possible to cultivate a life outside of your relationship without sacrificing closeness with your partner. Keep reading to learn how to be independent and stay true to yourself while still maintaining a healthy, supportive relationship with your boyfriend.
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