How to Know if Someone is Manifesting You: A Complete Guide

Co-authored by Jennifer McVey, Cht and Danielle Blinka, MA, MPA

Last Updated: March 13, 2023

Do you feel drawn to someone you’ve just met? Maybe a friend of yours is suddenly on your mind. It’s possible they’re trying to draw you to them because they're into you. But how do you know if someone is manifesting you? We’ll tell you exactly how to figure it out, so keep reading.

Things You Should Know

Someone might be manifesting you if you can’t stop thinking of them or you keep running into them.
Your family or friends might introduce you to someone who’s manifesting you.
If you feel like you already know someone you just met, it’s possible they’re manifesting you.

1

A new person suddenly enters your life.

Someone you’ve just met could be manifesting you. If they wrote down the qualities they want in a partner, you might not know each other beforehand. Alternatively, they might have seen you somewhere and decided that you're the one for them. Look for other signs they might be manifesting you to confirm your suspicions.
- A family member or friend might introduce you to them because the universe could act through them to help you. For instance, a friend of a friend that you’ve just met might be manifesting you.

2

You can’t stop thinking about them.

You won’t be able to get enough of someone who’s manifesting you. All of a sudden, you’ll be consumed with thoughts of them. You’ll find yourself scrolling through their social media pages or wanting to text them all the time. If they’re texting you back, keep the chat going.^{[1]
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- Maybe you’ve been daydreaming about them.
- Perhaps you felt really neutral around them before, but now you want to see them all the time.

3

They keep initiating conversations.

Someone who’s manifesting you has to take action for it to work. That means they’ll likely seek you out. You might compare how often you used to talk in the past to see if you’re chatting more often. If they’re constantly reaching out, they might be into you.^{[2]
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- They might come talk to you while you’re at a group event or you’re at school.
- They’ll text you first more than you text them first.

4

You run into them unexpectedly.

They'll suddenly be everywhere. You’ll see them at the store, when you go to pick up coffee, and when you go out to eat. The universe is trying to get you two lovebirds together, so you’ll see each other often. Track how often you see someone if you suspect they’re manifesting you.
- If you’ve always crossed paths a lot, it might just be a coincidence. But if this is new, perhaps the universe is drawing you together.
- In some cases, you might feel like you see them in crowds or might mistake other people for them.^{[3]
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They create reasons to be around you.

Another way they might take action is to see you more. They’ll probably find reasons to be around you, such as asking you for advice or inviting you to group hangs. They may even ask you to work with them on a project. They could be hoping that spending a lot of time with you will lead to a relationship.^{[4]
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- In this case, you won’t just be running into them—they’ll actually seek you out.

6

You’ve just met but you feel like you know them.

When someone manifests you, it’ll feel like you’re meant to be. They’ll seem so familiar, like you’ve known each other for a long time. You might even feel like you can finish their sentences. It’s possible this connection is because they’re manifesting you.^{[5]
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- You may have just met them a few weeks ago, but it feels like you’ve been friends for life.
- You might notice that your relationship is moving really fast because you’re clicking so well.

7

You feel good when you’re around them.

Positivity raises your vibrations, which is essential for manifesting. Someone who is trying to draw you into your life will likely be practicing gratitude and creating a positive mindset. You may suddenly notice that you feel better being around them. When you’re talking to them, listen for positive affirmations or things they’re grateful for.
- “I’m so grateful to have you in my life.”
- “Lately, I’ve just been focusing on the positive.”
- “I’m very blessed.”

8

You keep seeing their name in random places.

Look for someone’s name to see if they might be manifesting you. You’ll notice it on coffee cups, name tags, and social media posts. You might even hear it in conversations when you walk by people. If you pay careful attention, you could see it written in leaves or dirt.
- The OP of a viral meme might share the same first name as the person manifesting you.
- Your cashier at the grocery store and your server at a restaurant might share their name, as well.

9

You have a sense of déjà vu around them.

It may seem like you’ve already shared moments with them. You’ll even feel like you’ve lived an entire life with them before. Interpret these feelings as evidence that they’re manifesting you.^{[6]
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- Deja vu is the sense that you’ve lived a particular moment before.
- You might feel like you’ve already heard a story they told you or that you’ve previously shared a meal with them.

10

You ask for a sign from the universe—and get it.

The universe can confirm if you’re being manifested. Simply ask the universe for a sign, then look for it. If you see the sign, it’s likely this person really is manifesting you. You might spend more time with them to see if you really click. You might say:
- “Show me a sign if Alex is manifesting me.”
- “If Kai is manifesting me, I’ll see a sunflower this week.”
- “If Tara is manifesting me, I’ll see her name somewhere today.”

11

You see angel numbers.

Look for numbers 77 or 711 to see if love is coming into your life. The number 77 means it’s the right time to go out and find your soulmate. Even better, the number 711 means you’re about to meet your true love. If you’re seeing either of these numbers, it’s possible someone is manifesting you.^{[7]
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- The number may even be connected to them, such as their birthdate, their jersey number, or the date you met them.

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You're having dreams about them.

Your dreams might show you the person you’re meant to be with. In fact, dreams are the perfect way for the universe to keep them on your mind. If you keep dreaming about someone, it’s possible they’re manifesting you.^{[8]
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- You might have dreams about being in a relationship with them, or you could just see them in your dreams.
- Try interpreting your dreams to see if they point toward a new love on the horizon.

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An oracle or tarot reading confirms it.

Card readings can help you listen to your intuition. Do a tarot reading for yourself to see if there’s love in the cards. As another option, you could draw an oracle card to see if the meaning points to love on the horizon. If all you have is playing cards, use them as tarot cards. Ask the cards something like:
- “Is Li manifesting me?”
- “Will I find love soon?”
- “How would a relationship work out with Will?”

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A psychic confirms someone is manifesting you.

Your psychic can tell if someone is drawing you to them. If you work with a psychic, ask them for guidance when it comes to your love life.^{[9]
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- “Is Ameah manifesting me?”
- “Is there a reason I feel so drawn to Andi?”
- “Have I already met the person I’m supposed to be with?”

15

You feel love coming your way.

Your intuition can tell you someone is coming into your life. You might feel like you’re about to find a new love, or you may suddenly feel very romantic. Similarly, maybe you used to like being single, but you’re suddenly wanting to be in a relationship. You could take this feeling as a sign someone is manifesting you.
- Follow your intuition. If someone seems right for you, get to know them better and see if your relationship goes anywhere.

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You’re going through major life changes.

Big changes can signal someone new is entering your life. Both good and bad changes can create new opportunities and new beginnings. If you’re going through change, it’s possible someone could be manifesting you.
- You might get a job in a new city or suddenly lose your job.
- You may have recently ended a relationship or moved to a new city.