Most people do not look at your features as critically as you do, and may even see your ears as a positive feature. That said, taking a little time to find a style you enjoy can help improve your self esteem.

Method 1
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Using Accessories

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    Experiment with earrings. The right earrings can alter the overall appearance of your ears quite well, but the wrong ones will make them stand out even more. There are two approaches people use for large ears, so try them both and see which works for you:
    • Small lobe earrings detract attention from tall or stuck-out ear tips. Studs are a good choice, but small hoops or dangle earrings can work.
    • Other people take the opposite approach and wear large lobe earrings, making the ears look relatively smaller. Like upper cartilage piercings, this tactic does make your ears into a focal point, but perhaps one you can be proud of.
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    Wear sunglasses. Not only do these draw attention to your eyes, a pair of sunglasses with large frames can partially hide your ears if you push them up to your forehead.
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    Distract with a flashy top or necklace. While you might worry about your ears, chances are good that other people barely notice them, especially if you draw their attention elsewhere. Choose a top with a bright color or a vivid pattern, or wear a necklace.
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    Contour your face with makeup. Wearing a little makeup will focus attention on your face. Try contouring using two shades of foundation. Start by contouring the outline of your face with foundation two or three shades darker than your skin, then use lighter foundation to highlight areas such as the center of your forehead and the bridge of your nose. Blend these together well along the border between them.
    • You can even contour the outer edge of your ears in the same way, but this can be difficult to get right if you're not used to applying makeup.
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    Use double-sided tape. On days when you are feeling especially insecure, pin back your ears to the side of your head using double-sided tape. Use a tape intended for skin to avoid pulling out your hair, such as clothing fashion tape.
    • This is a temporary measure for occasional use. The tape may come undone if you leave it on too long.
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    Cover your ears completely. There are many accessories that hide your ears altogether, including headbands, earmuffs, bandanas, scarves, turbans, hoods, or a hat large enough to tuck your ears into. A large pair of headphones will also work when you're engaged in solitary activities in public.
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Method 2
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Changing Your Hair Style

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    Alter a short hairstyle. If you have short hair, try applying mousse or other hairstyling products, and mussing your hair in a bedhead look to partially hide your ears or distract from them.
    • Try combing your hair toward your face, then add volume by curling a few pieces away from your face.[1]
    • In the long run, you could try growing out the sides of your hair to medium length, to cover your ear tips. You can keep the rest of your hair short, although not buzz cut short.
    • All the remaining steps in this section are focused on medium to long hair styles.
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    Add volume and lift. The more volume your hair has, the easier it will be to cover your ears. There are several ways you can accomplish this:
    • Apply dry shampoo.
    • Use mousse or other hair styling products.
    • Curl your hair, add a wave, or get a perm. The simplest method is to use hair curlers overnight, but there are more permanent options described in the linked articles, or available at hairdressers.
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    Wear loose pony tails or braids. If you have long hair, pull it back loosely, so the sides arc over your ears. Side ponytails or braids are another option.
    • Avoid tight or high pony tails, which pull your hair away from your ears.
    • You can even go for the princess Leah side buns look, if you want to completely hide your ears.
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    Grow out your bangs. Long, sideswept bangs can hide your ears completely. Even shorter bangs left in front, with the rest of your hair pulled back, will make your hairstyle softer and less star, so your ears are not as much of a focal point.
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Community Q&A

  • Question
    There's no way to fix them forever without surgery?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    There are only few ways to move them back. Of course there's surgery, but there are also very expensive ear molds that aren't guaranteed to work. The best and safest option would be to go with the surgery.
  • Question
    Is it possible for my ears to become even more badly shaped if unexpected surgery occurs?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    It is possible. You should speak with your doctor about any risks with surgery.
  • Question
    Can I get a surgery when I am 14?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    You would need permission from a parent or guardian.
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References

  1. Hannah Metz. Professional Makeup & Hair Artist. Expert Interview. 14 December 2021.
  2. Hannah Metz. Professional Makeup & Hair Artist. Expert Interview. 14 December 2021.
  3. http://www.docshop.com/education/cosmetic/face/ear-surgery/risks

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This article was co-authored by Hannah Metz. Hannah Metz is a Professional Makeup & Hair Artist and the Founder and CEO of Hannah Elisabeth Beauty. With ten years of experience, she specializes in providing luxury makeup artistry and hair styling on location for others. Hannah and her team have completed beauty work for brand campaigns, celebrity red carpet events, and social media influencers. This article has been viewed 138,353 times.
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Article SummaryX

If you feel like you have big ears and want to hide them, then use accessories to draw people’s eye away from them. Try wearing large-framed sunglasses, which can draw attention to your eyes and even partially hide your ears when they’re pushed up on to your forehead. You can also wear a flashy top or a large necklace to draw people’s attention elsewhere. Another way to hide larger ears is to change your hairstyle. If you have short hair, try adding volume to minimize the appearance of your ears. Otherwise, try growing it out to cover your ears. For longer hair, try wearing a loose ponytail or braid since tightly pulled back hair will only draw attention to your ears. On days when you’re feeling particularly self-conscious, try pinning back your ears to the side of your head with double-sided tape. To learn how to wear earrings that will detract from your ears, keep reading!

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