If your beard won’t connect, it means that there are patches and sections that look bare. Common problems are the sideburns or mustache not fully meeting the beard, or the beard looking patchy overall. In some cases, you can't fill in bald spots, since the hair might not grow in that spot.[1] However, you can use some clever styling techniques to make your beard look nice and full.

Method 1
Method 1 of 3:

Styling Your Beard Differently

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    Grow your beard and hair longer so it covers the gaps. Sometimes, beards are patchy because they haven’t grown in enough. If you have bald spots or areas where the beard doesn’t reach your sideburns, try giving it some more time to grow.[2] If the beard doesn’t connect completely, the longer hair will do a better job masking those bare patches.[3]
    • Remember that it can take a long time to grow a full beard. Expect to grow your beard for 3-6 months before it looks full. If you’ve only been growing for a month, then the beard definitely won’t look connected yet unless your hair grows very fast.
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    Keep your beard short so patchy sections aren’t as noticeable. In addition to growing the beard longer to hide patches, you can also use the opposite approach and shorten it. In some cases, a longer beard makes bare patches more noticeable. Trimming the beard and leaving it short doesn’t make those patches stand out as much. Your beard might look connected even if it’s not.[4]
    • Try using the shortest setting on your beard trimmer. You could also have your barber do it so the result is as even as possible.
    • This works best if you have lighter hair, or a skin tone that’s close to your hair color.
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    Brush your sideburns and mustache toward your beard to connect them. If you have curly or wavy hair, there might be noticeable gaps where the beard doesn’t connect with your sideburns or mustache. Try styling it to cover those gaps. Brush your sideburns and mustache down, towards the beard. This could cover up spots where the beard doesn’t connect.[5]
    • Use a special beard brush to avoid damaging the hair.
    • If your beard won’t stay in place after brushing, try using some beard balm while you brush to stop it from moving.
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    Shave your beard to a point that it does connect at so it's even. Sometimes, your beard might reach your sideburns in one thin spot but not the others. This makes the beard look uneven and disconnected. You can style the beard around this. Use a razor or your trimmer and shave the beard back to the point where it reaches your sideburns. Do the same with your sideburns so the beard and sideburns meet at an even point. You’ll then have a nice, even spot that the beard connects to.[6]
    • Remember to maintain this trim if you do it. Otherwise, the beard will look unkempt when the hair starts growing back in.
    • If you don't think you can shave the beard this closely, let your barber do it.
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    Get a skin fade at the barber shop to hide the disconnected area. A skin fade is a hairstyle that makes your hair and beard progressively shorter as they approach each other. It’s a good hairstyle to cover up if your beard and sideburns don’t connect. Next time you get a haircut, ask the barber to give you this cut and see if it covers the patches better.[7]
    • The hairstyle can accommodate lots of different beard and hair lengths. Whether you have a bushy beard or just stubble, it will look good if the barber fades it correctly.
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    Consider a different beard type that doesn’t have to connect.[8] If none of these solutions satisfy you or cover the gaps well enough, then you can try out a different beard style. A goatee, for instance, only requires chin hair, so patchiness isn’t a problem. Explore other beard styles to see if another one works for you.[9]
    • Some other unconnected beard types include: a Van Dyke, with pointed chin hair and a mustache that don't connect; an anchor, which rounds out the chin hair with a mustache; and balbo, which extends the chin hair slightly up onto the cheeks. Experiment to see which suits you best.
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Method 2
Method 2 of 3:

Caring for Your Beard Correctly

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    Wash your beard 2-3 times per week for effective growth. If your beard is dirty and greasy, it may not grow as well. Keep it clean with a thorough wash 2-3 times per week. Wet the beard with clean water and apply beard shampoo. Massage the shampoo in and rinse the beard thoroughly. This cleans out your pores and encourages better growth.[10]
    • Washing your beard while you shower is easiest, but you can also do it in the sink if you prefer.
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    Condition your beard after you wash it to keep it soft. Keeping your beard conditioned prevents it from getting straggly and tangled. Whenever you wash your beard, also apply a beard conditioner after you shampoo it. Use a comb and brush the conditioner to the root of each hair. Let it sit for a minute, then wash it out.[11]
    • Keeping your beard conditioned makes brushing it easier as well. This way, you can cover up and patches or disconnected spots.
    • If you just have stubble or a short beard, you probably don't need conditioning.
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    Oil your beard to moisturize the skin underneath. Dry pores and follicles won’t grow hair as effectively. Squeeze a few drops of beard oil into your hands and rub them together. Then massage the oil into your beard with circular motions. This keeps your skin moisturized and healthy to keep producing hair.[12]
    • If your beard is short, you can oil it every 2 days. If it’s longer or you live in a dry climate, oil it every day.
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Method 3
Method 3 of 3:

Stimulating Hair Growth

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    Get a full night’s sleep to prevent thinning hair. Sleep deprivation is a common cause of thinning hair, especially if you regularly get less than 5 hours of sleep per night. Avoid caffeine before bed, don’t stay up late, and block off enough time to get 7-8 hours of sleep every night. Not only will your hair grow in better, but you’ll enjoy an overall benefit to your health as well.[13]
    • If you regularly have insomnia, try beating it by doing relaxing activities before bed like reading or meditating. Also avoid caffeine for at least 6 hours before bed so it’s all out of your system.
    • Thinking about stressful or important things before bed can also cause insomnia. Try to avoid talking about bills, work, money, or other serious topics within an hour of bedtime.
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    Follow a diet high in omega-3s and vitamins. These nutrients help stimulate hair growth.[14] Make sure you follow a healthy, balanced diet to keep yourself supplied with hair-growing nutrients.[15]
    • Good sources of omega-3s are oily fish like salmon, shellfish, nuts, and flaxseeds. You can also get food fortified with more omega-3s to boost their content.
    • Fresh fruits and vegetables are good sources of almost all necessary vitamins. Have some with every meal, or take supplements if you aren’t getting enough from your regular diet.
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    Reduce your stress to prevent hair loss and insomnia. High stress can cause thinning hair, insomnia, and lots of other health issues. If you regularly experience stress and anxiety, then it could be inhibiting your beard growth.[16] Try using relaxation techniques to control your stress for stimulated hair growth and better health overall.[17]
    • Regular aerobic exercise like running or biking is good stress-reducing activity. Walking can have the same effect. Try to get at least 30 minutes of exercise every day for the best results.
    • Doing activities you enjoy can also help cut down on stress.
    • If you have trouble reducing your stress on your own, try speaking with a therapist to learn some more effective techniques.
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Expert Q&A

  • Question
    How do you grow a connecting goatee?
    Woody Lovell
    Woody Lovell
    Professional Barber
    Woody Lovell is the Founder of The Barbershop Club, a gentleman's barbershop-as-social club rooted in 1990's traditional barbering based in the Hotel Normandie in Los Angeles, California. He is also the Founder of his own line of quality grooming products. He has over 20 years of experience in the male grooming industry and has consulted clients including professional athletes, musicians, and A-list actors throughout the Los Angeles area.
    Woody Lovell
    Professional Barber
    Expert Answer
    A connecting goatee describes the mustache connecting to the bottom part of the chin, which makes a solid goatee. Not everyone can grow a connecting goatee, meaning their mustache doesn't connect to the bottom part of their chin. The first thing you will have to figure out is if you can grow a connecting goatee.
  • Question
    How can I make my beard fuller?
    Woody Lovell
    Woody Lovell
    Professional Barber
    Woody Lovell is the Founder of The Barbershop Club, a gentleman's barbershop-as-social club rooted in 1990's traditional barbering based in the Hotel Normandie in Los Angeles, California. He is also the Founder of his own line of quality grooming products. He has over 20 years of experience in the male grooming industry and has consulted clients including professional athletes, musicians, and A-list actors throughout the Los Angeles area.
    Woody Lovell
    Professional Barber
    Expert Answer
    You can enhance the hair you already have by getting in good shape and living a healthy life. Exercising and eating right is the number one way to grow and keep the hair that you have.
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References

  1. Woody Lovell. Professional Barber. Expert Interview. 28 January 2020.
  2. Woody Lovell. Professional Barber. Expert Interview. 28 January 2020.
  3. https://www.gq.com/story/how-to-fix-your-patchy-beard
  4. https://www.gq.com/story/how-to-fix-your-patchy-beard
  5. https://www.gq.com/story/how-to-fix-your-patchy-beard
  6. https://youtu.be/J9Xs992Sip8?t=161
  7. https://www.menshairstylestoday.com/beard-fade/
  8. Woody Lovell. Professional Barber. Expert Interview. 28 January 2020.
  9. https://www.yalemedicine.org/stories/beard-mustache-skin-problems/

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