How to Date a Leo Man

Co-authored by Stina Garbis

Last Updated: October 17, 2022 References Approved

Some believe astrological signs can dictate personality. Believers in astrology find Leo men can be extremely attractive and usually have a lot of admirers. If you are looking to date one, it takes a little effort. Leos are full of adventure, so plan spontaneous date nights that are packed with fun. Make sure to support your Leo man's ego by letting him be the center of attention on occasion. In the long term, build up your own confidence. Leo men are attracted to bold, confident women.

Method 1

Method 1 of 3:

Planning Dates

1
Embrace spontaneous, silly fun. Some believe Leos have a naturally fun-loving nature and look for significant others to match. When planning dates with a Leo, embrace your inner child. Instead of the conventional dinner and a movie, find something fun and unexpected to do.^{[1]
X
Research source}
- For example, try doing something like mini golf or laser tag. A Leo will be delighted by these childlike games.
- Also, be spontaneous with dates. Surprise your Leo man with tickets to a concert at the last minute.
- Participate in his favorite activities! For instance, if he likes football, go to the game or bring snacks on game day to show that you're interested in the same things he is.
2
Plan dates where you take risks. Astrologers believe Leo men admire people who push themselves outside their comfort zone. If you want to keep a Leo man interested, do things that scare you a little on each date.^{[2]
X
Research source}
- If you're afraid of heights, for example, opt to get on the ferris wheel at a carnival.This is bound to impress a Leo man.
Advertisement
3
Go out frequently. Believers in astrology feel Leo men love to socialize, so don't do anything to hamper your Leo man's need to get out. Say yes to parties, concerts, and other events to keep your Leo man happy and entertained.^{[3]
X
Research source}
- Make sure not to take up all of your Leo man's attention at events. Leos like to socialize with a wide circle, so hang back while he talks to others at parties.

Method 2

Method 2 of 3:

Supporting Him Emotionally

1
Support his ego. Some believe Leo men are naturally full of themselves and enjoy being the center of attention. Stroking his ego a little, as long as you don't go overboard, can help you support your Leo man. Pay him sincere compliments every day. At social events, let him take the lead if he seems to want to.^{[4]
X
Research source} Also, make sure to laugh at his jokes, even the ones that aren't all that funny.
- However, if you go overboard with the compliments and praise, a Leo man's ego may become over the top. Remind of things you sincerely like about him, but avoid hyperbolic language (i.e., "You're the best!") as this could make dating a Leo insufferable.
EXPERT TIP

Jessica Lanyadoo
Astrologer & Psychic Medium
Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with over 20 years of consulting experience. She is the author of Astrology for Real Relationships: Understanding You, Me, and How We All Get Along and is the host of the popular astrology and advice show, Ghost of a Podcast. Lanyadoo co-hosted TLC’s digital astrology show Stargazing and writes weekly and monthly horoscopes that help you heal.

Jessica Lanyadoo
Astrologer & Psychic Medium

What should I know about dating a Leo? It's challenging to change a Leo's mind, so you'll often need to defer to what he wants. Leos also love being the center of attention and your crush wants to be the leader in any situation, especially a leader who is adored.
2
Let him pursue his passions. Leo men are unlikely to stay with women who hold them back. Leos tend to pursue challenges easily and always try to see tasks through to their completion. If your Leo is working on a project, give him his space. If you try to get between a Leo and their passions, you're likely to lose.^{[5]
X
Research source}
3
Encourage him to go easy on himself. Leos can sometimes be a little self-depreciating. As they expect a lot from themselves, they sometimes get frustrated if they don't meet their own high expectations. As a Leo man's partner, it's important to remind him he doesn't have to be perfect.
- Stroke his ego a little when he's down on himself, as this will usually help him perk up. Say something like, "Your boss really values you because you're such an intelligent worker. One setback doesn't change that."
4
Keep your jealousy in check. Leos are charming by nature and will attract a lot of women. When out with a Leo, it's not uncommon to see other people hitting on your date. Leos dislike signs of insecurity, so try to keep any jealous in check.^{[6]
X
Research source}
- Remember, while Leos are charming, they are also very loyal. If your Leo man has chosen you, he's unlikely to stray.

Method 3

Method 3 of 3:

Maintaining the Relationship

1
Remind him you need support. Astrologers believe Leos are sometimes too caught up in themselves. This means your needs can sometimes go neglected. Don't let a Leo's ego get in the way of your needs. Remind him that you need some attention and support as well.^{[7]
X
Research source}
- Be upfront with your Leo, as he admires confidence. If you show him you're unafraid to ask that your needs be met, he'll be impressed and likely agree.
- Say something like, "I know you're excited about work, but I could use a little encouragement on my end too."
2
Show him loyalty. Leo men are loyal by nature and are attracted to people who can match that. Stay loyal to your Leo by continually supporting him and being there for him.^{[8]
X
Research source}
3
Work on your confidence. Leos don't like to date anyone they can't respect. They like strong, confident, independent people. In the long run, do things to make yourself feel confident and raise your self esteem. This will help you stay intriguing for a Leo man.^{[9]
X
Research source}
- Find ways to boost your self esteem like getting involved in hobbies, working out, or developing a skill.
4
Deal with his temper. Astrologers feel Leo is a naturally temperamental sign. It's not okay for someone to take out their anger on you. If a Leo's temper is getting to be a problem, tell him as much immediately. Ask him to work on his anger issues for the sake of your relationship.
- Never stay in a relationship with someone who's unable to keep their anger in check.