How to Compliment a Guy on His Hard Work

Written by John Keegan | Edited by Madeleine Flamiano

Last Updated: May 21, 2022 References

Are you stunned by your man's discipline and hard work? Maybe he doesn't notice all that he's capable of because he's just being himself. If you want to remind him that he brings so much to the table and takes your breath away, then look no further! We've compiled a list of ways to praise him so that he feels truly appreciated. If you want to compliment a guy for his hard work, then read this guide and start doting on him right away.

This article is based on an interview with our dating coach, John Keegan. Check out the full interview here.

1

Marvel at his level of motivation.

Give him a pick-me-up and say his determination impresses you. If he wakes up with a mission and never gives up, then he deserves to be cheered on. Tell him that he’s one-of-a-kind because he can keep moving forward. He’ll get a boost of energy and confidence.
- “You’re so driven and ambitious. It really turns me on…”
- “I’m so impressed by how your motivation comes from within! 😊”
- “Each time you reach a goal, you make a new one! It blows my mind! 🤯”

2

Worship his work ethic.

Notice how committed he is to his career and he’ll feel more driven. Help him score an advantage in the workplace and drive up his performance by acknowledging how serious he is when he clocks in. You’ll definitely renew his enthusiasm.^{[1]
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- “I can’t believe you wake up at 5 AM! 😮 Your grind is unstoppable!”
- “You’re always killing it at your job! You’re such a beast! 🦁”
- “You are the hardest worker I know. I adore you.”

3

Admire all the favors he does for you.

Those acts of service require a lot of thoughtfulness. If he looks for any way that he can make your day easier, then point out each and every gesture. He’ll be so grateful that you’re aware of just how supportive he is.
- “Thank you for helping me move! 📦 It was a huge weight off my shoulders!”
- “I appreciate you pitching in with dinner! Two chefs are better than one! 🧑‍🍳🧑‍🍳”
- “I love that you always walk Boxer! You’re the best dog dad on the block.”

4

Celebrate his generosity.

He’ll appreciate that you notice how he looks out for others. If he searches for every opportunity to uplift people or contribute to his community, then he often puts himself second. Remind him that you place him on a pedestal and that he’s your absolute favorite person.
- “You volunteer so much time to other people! You’re a gem. 💎”
- “I adore how much you look after your parents—you’re such an amazing son.”
- “You really pulled out all the stops for our anniversary! 🥺😭”

5

Speak highly of his intelligence.

Cultivating smarts is no easy task. Maybe he’s an expert in a subject, a whiz with pop culture, or an analyst of everyday trends. Any way that he uses his brain and stretches his thinking takes a lot of mental labor, so be observant of that and you’ll make his heart melt!^{[2]
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- “You’re like an encyclopedia! So much info at my fingertips! 📖”
- “You could totally outsmart Spock. A Vulcan has nothing on you! 🖖🏿”
- “I know I can always turn to you for advice. You consider every single angle!”

6

Praise his personality.

He’s put a lot of effort into developing those awesome character traits. Whether he makes you laugh all the time, blows you away with his artistic spirit, or grounds you with his honesty, remind him that you value who he’s become.^{[3]
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- “You’re so funny! I’m treated to a stand-up routine every day! 🎤”
- “You’re so creative it’s as though you’re from a different planet! 🪐”
- “You’re so sincere. I know I can always trust you to tell the truth.”

7

Cheer him on for his inner work.

Self-reflection takes a ton of time and patience. If he’s committed to self-improvement and breaking out of patterns that don’t serve him in favor of ones that do, tell him how noble he’s being. It’ll give him the inspiration to continue his journey.^{[4]
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- “I love that you commit to being a better man every day. ❤️”
- “It’s inspiring that you meditate and prioritize inner peace. 🙏”
- “I think it’s so cool that you want to learn from your past relationships.”

8

Thank him for his optimism.

He’ll light up when you notice how he looks on the bright side. When you’ve had a bad day, he’ll come to the rescue to lift your spirits. If he focuses on finding all the reasons you should embrace a situation, then cherish his positive attitude.^{[5]
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- “Nothing ever gets you down! With you, that glass is so full that it’s spilling over! 🥤”
- “It’s incredible that you can find the silver lining in every situation. 😚”
- “I can always count on you to see the blessing in disguise!”

9

Point out all his people skills.

He’ll smile when you share how much he wins others over. When he’s laughing, telling stories, asking questions, and checking in, he’s actually using up a ton of bandwidth. Recharge him and say you’re his biggest fan because he’s so charming.
- “Look at how you work a crowd! 🪄 No one can tell that story better than you.”
- “You make everyone feel important and valued. That’s a rare skill!”
- “Your presence brightens everyone’s day. ☀️ Talk about charisma!”

10

Swoon over how protective he is.

Tell him you feel secure around him and he’ll have a ton of pride. When his number one priority is for you to feel valued and safe, then you’ve got a great man on your side. Share how much he honors you as a partner so he’ll know you’re a team.^{[6]
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- “You always stand up for me! 🤺 I find that so swoon-worthy.”
- “It’s obvious that you treat me like gold! 🪙✨”
- “I feel respected and cherished 24/7.”

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Gush about his looks.

Boost his ego and confess how attractive he is. Maybe he’s hitting the gym several times a week, eating well, or dressing up.^{[7]
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- “It’s like I’m dating a runway model! All my friends are totally jealous. 😅”
- “You’re a knock-out in a three-piece suit, a swimsuit, or a sweatsuit! 🥵”
- “You age like a fine whiskey! The really expensive, top-shelf stuff.”

12

Treasure the passion he shows you.

Say you’re always enticed and excited and his heart will race. It takes serious commitment to keep a dynamic spicy and unexpected. When he makes sure to turn up the heat, then give him an extra helping of appreciation. He’ll love to hear you’re still satisfied.^{[8]
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- “Our chemistry is incredible, even after all these years! 🧪”
- “I’ve never had a better lover than you. 😳”^{[9]
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- “You really know how to wind me up! It’s a serious talent.”