How to Be Popular and Pretty

Co-authored by Paul Julch, MA

Last Updated: March 7, 2023 References

The desire to look pretty and become popular is extremely common and natural. But in order to attain these qualities, you need to develop your best signature look, enhance your personality, and evaluate your self-worth. As you strive to attain these qualities, you will discover the value of self-confidence, self-awareness, positivity, and kindness. Be yourself along the way and see what fits best for you!

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Becoming Pretty

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Apply makeup that highlights your unique features. A simple application of makeup will accentuate your gorgeous features, boost your confidence, and make you look pretty.^{[1]
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Expert Interview. 29 July 2020.} When applying makeup, customize to following steps and suggestions to fit your needs:
- Apply an SPF moisturizer to your face.
- Conceal any dark spots and blemishes with foundation, followed by concealer (if needed). Blend the products.^{[2]
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- Highlight your cheekbones with blush. Apply the blush to the apples of your cheeks and spread the product towards your upper ears.^{[3]
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- Apply a dash of shimmery eyeshadow to your eyelids. Line your lids with an eyeliner of your choice to make your eyes pop. Coat your eyelashes with mascara for a simple but classy finishing touch.^{[4]
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- For plump lips, apply chapstick followed by lipstick or lipgloss.^{[5]
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Wear clothes that accentuate your best attributes. Your wardrobe should contain items that you feel comfortable and confident wearing. First and foremost, choose clothing that highlights your best features while minimizing your problem areas.^{[6]
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- Opt to skip the fashion trends if they are unflattering or contradictory to your personal sense of style.^{[8]
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- Remember, your outfits can be a statement of your personality and values. While you should never apologize for your clothing choices, try to pick pieces that accurately reflect your true personality.^{[9]
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Care for your hair. Since your tresses frame your pretty face, it is essential that your hair is properly cared for each day. Brush your hair each day and condition your locks frequently. Keep split ends at bay with regular haircuts.
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Take care of your body. In order to have a flattering figure and beautiful skin, you must take proper care of yourself. Consider implementing the following suggestions into your routine:
- Get at least 8 hours of sleep each night. An adequate amount of sleep will reinvigorate your body and your skin.
- Exercise regularly. Physical activity is the key to maintaining a fit figure and a healthy complexion. Try to work out for 30 to 45 minutes each day.
- Consume a well-balanced diet and plenty of water. A diet rich in vitamins, minerals, nutrients, and H2O to keep your skin, nails, and hair healthy.

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Becoming Popular

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Be yourself. When you alter your personality to impress other people, you are putting on a facade that hides your true self. As a result, you are not only denying people the opportunity to get to know the real you, but you are also denying yourself the opportunity to discover legitimate acceptance. Have the confidence and courage to be you.^{[10]
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- Don’t take yourself too seriously. Have fun, laugh at yourself often, and smile frequently.^{[11]
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Be positive. People are drawn to positivity. Developing a positive attitude will make you more approachable, relatable, and likable. As those around you recognize that you are accepting rather than exclusive, compassionate rather than judgmental, and supportive rather than jealous, you will win over people.^{[12]
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Be inclusive. As you become popular, never forget what it felt like to be excluded, invisible, or bullied. Make an effort to remain humble. Extend kindness, friendship, and respect to everyone around you. Welcome newcomers to your group with upon arms. Strike up a conversation with someone others avoid. Your ability to make others feel like part of the group will only increase your popularity.^{[13]
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Be involved. Participating in new activities is an excellent way to meet new people and receive the attention of those in your community. In addition to joining clubs and groups within your comfort zone, consider exploring new hobbies, sports, or arts.
- Try out for a sports team or join an intramural league.
- Audition for the school play or compete for a spot on the debate team.
- Participate in Quiz Bowl or trivia.
- Join a gym or a book club.
- Start a group about something you are passionate about.^{[14]
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Becoming Confident

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Evolve as an individual. Self-confidence and self-awareness are extremely attractive qualities. Embark on a journey of self-discovery down an unpredictable path towards inner beauty, independence, and renewed self-worth.
- Take classes that challenge your worldview.
- Spend time appreciating nature and works of art.
- Dedicate yourself to elevating the cause of others above the needs of your own.
- Learn from those around you.^{[15]
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Accept yourself. Throughout your journey of self-discovery, you will learn new things about yourself. Instead of ignoring your findings, own them. Recognize that you are who you are; accept that your interests, dreams, and passions are what make you unique.^{[16]
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Expert Interview. 29 July 2020.} As you grow to love your true self, your confidence will flourish.^{[17]
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Embrace your unique features. Every individual is uniquely beautiful. Identify what makes you different—perhaps it is or hair color or freckles, or your high cheekbones or almond-shaped eyes. While these features may make you self-conscious, they are also what make you special.^{[18]
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- Use makeup and hair products to draw positive attention to the features. Doing so will make you distinctly beautiful.^{[19]
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Community Q&A

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How do I become friends with popular people?

Community Answer

Talk to them! If you're too shy to approach them as a group, try to get to know one or two of them. If you have a class with one of them, talking about the subject or the teacher can be a good way to make conversation. Just be nice, be yourself, and treat them like you would anyone else. Don't be intimidated because they're popular. If they're not nice to you in return, then they don't deserve to be your friends.
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What if I can't wear makeup?

Community Answer

You don't need to wear makeup. Just take care of your skin by washing your face and moisturizing, and focus the rest of your attention on your hair and clothes. Or even better, don't worry about your appearance so much and concentrate on being a nice person and a good friend!
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How can I be popular and pretty if everyone currently knows me as a mean person?

Community Answer

Stop being mean! If you know you've hurt people in the past, apologize for it, and start going out of your way to be nice. Be friendly with people. Ask them how they are and take a real interest in their answer. Join a club or a team sport and make friends there. If you keep at it, eventually people will change their minds about you.